Crush Being Single

Being single has two sides. To some is a gift, to others, it is a curse. The question is do you see being single as a curse or a gift? There are many things that one can do single that one cannot do while in a relationship. In the following points, I will explain how to crush being single and get the aunt off your back about not being in a relationship.

Like anything thing in life, being single is all about perspective. You can look at all of the fun couple stuff and wish you could do it, or you could be the boss who goes and does it alone or with friends.

1. Look Good, Eat Good, and Feel Good

Many people claim that you are what you eat, and, while this is a cliche, it's so true! You need to eat well so that you can have the energy to pamper yourself. Looking good is 90% mental and 10% hard work. Get some new clothes and hit the gym, not so that you look good for any potential dates that may see you, but rather so you feel confident in who you are. Confidence is attractive on everyone so make sure you put some on every morning. Make sure that you look good for you because you are a boss who deserves to look like royalty no matter where you are.

2. Sleep

One thing that you can do better single than you can in a relationship is sleep. So take advantage of it! Get the best night's sleep you can while you can and it will make the days brighter and more enjoyable! Because you never know the person you are in a relationship with next could be an all-night talker or a freight train snorer. Yikes!

3. Set Some Goals

Make some goals of things you can do only when you are single and do them! Remember you and your newfound confidence are a hot commodity, so you had better get your "single bucket list" done fast! Many have said, there is nothing better than seeing someone who has a plan for their life...nuff said.

4. Make Days for You

Pamper yourself. You have been working hard, you deserve it! Get gussied up and treat yourself to a night of doing your favorite things. Do them alone and get a confidence boost or do them with friends for the company. But I guarantee going out to eat or to the movies by yourself is exhilarating!

5. Get Out There

Just because you are single is no excuse to stay inside binge-watching Netflix with a bag of Doritos! Get out there, see the world, volunteer, make a difference while your schedule only bends to your will!

With these simple tips on how to crush being single, you will have so many things going on that your aunt will only be able to talk about your achievements and schedule rather than you being single. And you will feel so much more confident and successful because you have conquered another obstacle in your life! By seeing that being single means you can focus on so many other things, there will be no more doubt in your mind that being single is a gift that you can use to your advantage.