Is He Falling for You?

People say that men don't have feelings, that is wrong and total bullshit. They have feelings and they usually fall for a woman before the woman falls. They think they can shove the feelings aside, or they are too oblivious to them to even notice what the hell is going on before it's too late.

Staring at You

Guys will stare at the lady he is in love with while she is looking away. So if you turn your head and he is looking at you, more than likely he's been looking at you for the last 30 seconds, minimum. They will do this more and more as his feelings grow stronger.

The Look

The loving look, this look is something you will only know if you have experienced it. When you look into each other's eyes, you see his true emotions. It is a very intense feeling that fills you two and the air between you. When this happens to me, I ask them what they are thinking, more than likely he ain't going to tell you those thoughts and even smile with it a bit.

Communication

Does he find time to text you, even for the littlest things like sending you a meme or a joke to get a conversation rolling? Is he texting or calling a lot about stuff to make you laugh to see how you are doing? Then more then likely, even when he is busy, you are still the one he is thinking of. This person misses you during their busy day and late at night, not just late at night like a booty call.

The Little Things

He remembers that you told him a month ago you had a dance recital and he wishes you luck on the day. Then he will be the one to go above and beyond and go to the recital and be there for you to watch you and support you. He may play it off as he was just in the neighborhood.

Pillowtalk

If you two are having sex, this one is really big. If he is having sex with you he could send you right home or he could leave right away, but if he chooses to stick around for talking, eating, or any other activities that do not involve him leaving anytime soon, then he is falling very hard for you

Opens Up

When a guy starts to fall, he has to try very hard to keep his guard up, but sometimes he will let something slip that will catch your attention. Like his favorite color, or something about his childhood. He is letting his wall down partly because he didn't realize it, and partly because he felt he could open up to you and that takes trust as well.

Going out of the Way

If he is at work and you are sick, he will leave for a break just to bring you soup. He is the guy that will call a boys night out early just so he can share part of his day for you as well.

Touching

He will always find a reason to cross the touch boundary. We touch things we are interested in and we continue to touch them if they really feel something for that person. Poking, grazing your hand with his, etc.

Talk of the Future

This man will talk about the future, even if they are little things at first. You'll start to pick up on things like, "When I go to college two hours from here, you can come stay the weekends." That is a good subtle sign that he is falling because he is telling you he sees you in his future, and so much in his future to drive two hours one way to stay with him just so you guys can make it work.

Remember guys are complicated; we have to dig a little deeper and pay closer attention to detail, it's about his words matching his actions and vice versa.