Everyone wants to find that special one who leaves a burning spark in their soul and makes them want to become a better human. But there must be signs the universe gives you in order to truly make a soulful impact on your life. Many people believe that when you meet your soulmate you just instantly connect and that's it. But it doesn't end there friends. You have to make sacrifices and changes to your life in order to make a growing relationship work, but that's another tale to tell soon.
To gain a meaningful and clearer vision when seeking your soulmate is key. As Rumi says, 'what you seek is seeking you,' therefore don't be so shy and you may never know. These five signs you've met your soulmate should be noted in your diary.
Understanding & Loyalty
No matter what anybody says, a true relationship is always doted on loyalty and understanding. Having a strong set of values helps two individuals come together, grow together and practically stay together - according to relationship experts. When your soulmate is willing to stick by you through thick and thin, that's when you know you've connected with the right person.
You have probably heard the saying 'opposites attract,' some people do believe in this theory of attraction, while others reject it saying relationships like these don't work out for the long-term. However, if you share one interest the same as your soulmate, it can lead to a new beginning. In fact, you've probably already spoke about your hobbies, your favourite singers or maybe the books you have started reading. Sharing similar interests can help you develop a connection, which leads to growth and your relationship has a higher chance of being successful. But don't forget that common core values are vital, more than similar interests. You see if you have the same beliefs, where you want to live in the future and a general similarity about how you want to live your life, you have a greater chance to maintain the relationship for the long run.
You're comfortable around them.
You can totally be yourself and that's a wonderful feeling to experience. When you've met your soulmate your words will be loving and nice, but also truthful and as real as reality. Of course, every couple goes through the ups and downs, but if you already have that crackling connection, you are winning. You can tell your partner absolutely anything without being judged or looked down upon. If you feel like you can be open and honest about everything going on in your life, then you have found your match.
Your soulmate knows how to make you feel special.
We all have our own ideals of what we would like when it comes to being loved. Your soulmate should recognize this and make sure to love you like that. But, we are all busy humans thriving upon work and our daily duties, that we forget about the simple things our soulmates do for us. Like making your morning breakfast or leaving you a note about having dinner together after work. Whatever makes you 'feel special' take it, your soulmate wants to see you smile. Obviously, we're referring to a love that has understanding, loyalty, values and you being comfortable around them.
You feel at home & secure.
We are exposed to so much negative energy that makes us feel scared and separated at times. When these events do occur, your soulmate will know how to make you feel completely 'at home' and secure. They will eliminate those negative vibes and fill you with so much positive energy, that you become your happiest self once again. This is your true soulmate, hold onto them forever.