5 Things Guys Will Never Admit To

Guys are funny creatures. Where women wear their hearts and emotions on their sleeves, men have a tendency to keep feelings and habits more hidden. I am not trying to stereotype at all, I am just speaking from my 34 years of life and the many men I have grown up with and met along the way. It could be something as silly as admitting to watching chick flicks to something more personal like how often they cry, but either way men rarely offer this information on a platter for all to know. It's hard enough to get basic truthful facts out of some men let alone possibly embarrassing personal confessions. Well guess what my lovely male specimens, Jus L'amore is here to enlighten the women of the world of the adorable little secrets you hold so close to your heart.

Here are five things men never will admit to.

They Aren't Always in the Mood

What!!??? Men aren't horny all the time? Bullshit! For many of my early sexual active years I thought men wanted sex ALL THE TIME. Of course, there are injuries and illness and the debilitating "man cold" but even then I assumed they would still take part in some sort of sexual act if offered. Turns out I was wrong and men, perhaps not as often as women, are sometimes just not in the mood. At least women can go on and on and on to their girlfriends about how often they are NOT in the mood yet men, yeah, they don't have those conversations. Can you imagine your man sitting with his buddies saying, "All my wife wants to do is have sex with me. In the morning, at night, it doesn't matter, I swear it's like she is a walking lady boner." Hold on, I'm cracking up right now because that sure as shit has never and will ever be a conversation had.

Dudes, take it from a woman who writes about sex, enjoys sex, and has a husband with the sexual appetite of a 16-year-old boy, it is OK to occasionally not want sex. I assure you, if others found out you would not be banished or shunned. You don't have to go around divulging this information to every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but it is nothing to be ashamed of. And ladies, if your man turns you down please don't pull a crazy bitch card and start crying that he doesn't love you or find you attractive anymore. It's chicks like you who give these men half of their complexes.

They Like Chick TV

I love crap TV and so does my husband and some of our most favorite nights (since having children) are when the kids go to bed, we set up a little snack and beve, and binge watch our DVR clean. From MTV and E to Bravo and HGTV, my man loves some hardcore reality drama. Of course, he doesn't go recapping last night's episodes with his buddies but that's OK because I love that discussing what happened and how much we hate Farrah from Teen Mom OG is OUR thing and no one else's. It's like having a little piece of girl time with my husband which in my book is a great thing. Why are men so uncomfortable with admitting they like to watch a group of five filthy rich women due nothing but travel, shop, and talk shit? What's the big deal if a dude would rather watch a romantic comedy over a thriller or action flick? Whatever the reason, I would get over it quickly because I am willing to bet that more than a quarter of Bravo's fan base is made up of your fellow fantasy football players.

They Gossip

Even though men love to say that women talk way too much about each other (they're right, we do) they too love to partake in a little shit-talk secret-sharing session when the mood strikes. Whether it be with their girl or their friends, guys are no better when it comes to sharing juicy gossip. Why deny something so fun is more of the concern here because there is nothing wrong with sitting down over some coffee or wine, speaking in loud whispers, and sharing dirt that is guaranteed to raise eyebrows and drop jaws! Just the thought of good gossip has me giddy!

They Cry

Luckily, times have changed and the misconception that a man who cries is weak or less than no longer exists, for the most part anyways. Now, I feel like I am surrounded by emotional teary eyed dudes and honestly, I adore it. I think there is nothing sweeter than a man who can display his feelings without worry of judgement. It comes back to a confidence thing really, I mean what the hell is the big deal? When I am watching a movie where the tears are streaming down my face and look over to see my husband's cheeks just as wet as mine, I find it comforting and of course adorable. I would be more concerned if he wasn't crying honestly. It can be tears of happiness like the birth of a child to a simple sad movie. Say for instance a film about a family and their incredible dog who passes away. If a human being doesn't cry when they watch the scene from Marly and Me where that damn beautiful golden retriever is put down than something is seriously wrong with them. It is one of the longest most heartbreaking scenes I've ever witnessed and my husband and I cried so hard we actually started hysterically laughing during those twenty tortuous cinematic minutes. Now does he go around telling everyone about the time he cried so hard he laughed, no, never. However, I couldn't wait to share our movie meltdown with my friends.

They Check Out Other Dudes

What! It's true! Men check out other men. From their hair and body to style and personality, it is totally common for men to take notice of other men in a completely non-sexual way. It's a shame that a man would feel insecure or embarrassed by this. Do you know how many times I compliment complete female strangers? Literally, all the time. From their hair and makeup to their clothes and accessories, I whole-heartily enjoy checking out chicks and brightening their day with an honest compliment. In fact, I find that a man who is able to compliment another man in public, a turn on. It shows confidence, maturity, and kindness.