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7 Things That Turn Women Off

Men...you're going to want to take notes!

By Heart Centered UniversePublished 6 years ago 2 min read
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So if you're out there dating and quite possibly in a new relationship, you may have discovered that women are very complicated creatures. But once a woman gets turned off by something that you do, or don't do, it's difficult, if not impossible, to get that sizzle back!

So, in order to keep you in the dating game, I'm going to tell you the top seven things that turn women OFF!

These are in no particular order, they're all important!

1. Not Paying Attention to Basic Grooming

Are there any guys showering out there? It pains me to even have to say this but, SHOWER DAILY. Shower more often if you think you might need it. Sweaty, stinky, and greasy is just gross, unless you're actually at the gym. And if you've got hair in strange places, you might want to take care of that.

2. Dishonesty

Being a liar is one of the biggest turn offs! This includes using an old photo on a dating app, you know, the one where you're ten years younger and 20 lbs lighter. This also encompasses not being extremely clear about what your current relationship status is, or what your intentions are towards her. Men that lie cannot be trusted, and once even a white lie comes out of your mouth, it will be difficult for her to trust you. If you're dishonest it shows that you lack integrity and it also says that you have zero respect for the person you're lying to.

3. Being Cheap!

Listen, women realize that most men don't have access to unlimited funds and may be on a budget. We are too. The good women out there are looking for love and a partner, they are not after your money. If you decide to take your date to a fancy restaurant, don't keep mentioning how much everything costs! No one told you that you had to take her to the most expensive restaurant in town. Women don't care about how much money you're spending on a date. What we do care about is that you took the time and effort to plan something fun and interesting and that you're fully present. What women really want is a man's time and attention.

4. Insecurities

Everyone has some insecurities. No one is perfect, therefore no one is immune to having some sort of self-doubt. Spend some time improving your confidence before you start dating. Confidence doesn't come from any external source, it comes from within. Arrogance is included in this because we know that if you're arrogant, what you really are is insecure.

5. Uncontrolled Anger or Being Rude

Not being in control of your anger is very unattractive. Men that are slow to anger are mature. They've realized that there are things that are not within their control and they've learned to accept the things that they can't change.

6. Not Being a Gentleman

What a woman wants is to feel safe with a man. If she doesn't feel safe then it's possible that she will choose to not be with that man. This is the main idea behind being a gentleman, it'ss that you put in the effort to make her feel safe. Open the door for her and let her enter first. All of these things require very minimal effort on your part.

7. No Ambition and Lacks Self-Awareness

The sexiest men are passionate about what they do, and know exactly what they want!

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Heart Centered Universe

Author of Transcendence A Memoir, SAG Actress, and Real Estate Agent based in Miami Beach, FL. My blog is about what I feel called to share with the world🌍 Be Happy and VIBE HIGH! ⭐️❤️ www.authorrebeccajbrock.com.

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