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Are You With Your Soulmate?

Soulmates Explained

Hi-I'm Rebecca J. Brock and I'm a writer and an intuitive love coach.

Today I want to explain the four different types of soulmates that you might come across in your lifetime and what they mean for you.

Everyday Soulmates

These are the people that you come across in your everyday life. There really are no coincidences, and every person that you meet has some sort of purpose for your life. They either have something that they need to learn from you or that you need to learn from them. Or they're meant to help you in some sort of way or vice versa.

When you start to think of everyone that crosses your path as a potential soulmate, you'll start to view the world in a whole different light. Start paying attention to everyone that crosses your path and look for the meaning or lesson behind it.

Family Soulmates

These are your parents, your siblings, your children, your cousins, your grandparents, and so on. It could also be your best friend. Have you ever met someone and just felt an instant connection with them? Like you've known them your entire life? This is a family type of soulmate.

Romantic Soulmates

I know this is the one everyone has been waiting for! With romantic soulmates, there's always a very strong sexual attraction between the two people. I'm sure I don't have to go into further detail about that—we've all experienced it. It's kind of like a pull towards the other person, almost like a magnet.

Now just because there's a strong sexual attraction, that does not mean that the two of you are meant to spend your lives together. There are two types of romantic soulmates: there's the life partner romantic soulmate, and then there's the karmic romantic soulmate.

A karmic soulmate relationship is where the two of you come together in order to work out some sort of karma. It usually comes with a whole lot of drama. This type of karmic relationship usually comes with a lot of fighting and arguing because they mirror you. Now, what do I mean by that? Basically everything that they do that drives you crazy is something you do, too. They mirror you.

Now if you've ever had the super "fun" experience of working through some karma with a soulmate, I want you to understand that its purpose in your life is to change something about your life and to set you on a completely different course.

Being in a karmic romantic partnership and having it end is like having the rug pulled out from underneath you. Suddenly, everything that you knew is not the same and things that were important to you before are not important to you now. It's meant to be a catalyst for change in your life. But the good news is that you life can transform for the better. Hopefully, you can grow and evolve from it. 

Twin Flames

I'm sure you've heard of twin flames. Everybody seems to be talking about it like it's some sort of trend. Twin Flames are often described as one soul split into two different parts. So basically, your twin flame is your other half.

But personally, I don't like to focus so much on twin flames in my coaching practice because it gives the impression that there is only one person out there that you're destined to be with and if you mess that up, you're screwed! Nothing could be farther from the truth.

Now think about this; it gets a little deep for a second. There is destiny, where two people are meant to be together, but there is also free will, freedom of choice. So while two people may be destined to be together, based on their free will and the choices they make, it's entirely possible that the two of them don't end up together. So by that theory, there must be multiple people that you could end up with as your romantic life partner.

One more thing I want to say about twin flames and that is: it's possible that you don't end up with your twin flame as your romantic life partner. Oftentimes, this type of relationship is too volatile because both parties are too similar.

So how do you know if you're with your twin flame? First, both people have to be evolved enough to see past those mirrors and be able to work through any issues. And this is the most important: Twin Flames come together in this lifetime to fulfill a very special purpose that only the two of them can fulfill together. This purpose is always for highest good of humanity and makes the world a better place.

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