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Be a Listener...

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By Balnish KaurPublished 5 years ago 2 min read
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I would really appreciate it if you all could take out some time and read this. I just want to share my thoughts and feelings with you. I'm not writing this because I'm in this situation right now but I'm writing this on behalf of all of us and the experiences we have in life. Every time people get their ego in between. Some people do not understand how bad the opposite person may feel and go through. It's not just about friendship but everything which makes us sad.

I don't understand how you can smile all day but cry yourself to sleep at night. How pictures never change but the people in them do. How your best friend can become your worst enemy, or how strange it is when your enemy turns into your best friend. How forever turns into a few short months that you'd do anything to get back. How you can let go of something you once said you can't live without. How even though you know something is best for you, it just hurts the same. How people make promises despite knowing how common it is for promises to be broken.

When we get in a fight with someone, people think that they can erase you from their lives just because it is easier than working things out. It hurts the most when people do not value you or your presence in their lives. The greatest gift we can give someone is our love. It may seem free to some of you , but it is the most expensive thing in this whole wide world. I have lost friends who meant a lot to me but I'm not cruel like them and I will always cherish those memories which I've made with them all those years.

You don't realize how happy you could make someone by giving all your love, time, affection and care.Nowadays it's very rare to find true friends. Some will cut you off just because they might have some issues with you. People do not realize how just one small mistake of theirs can compel someone to take their own lives. But no, people's ego comes in the way...they hold grudges for years and won't even apologize for doing wrong to them just because it has become like a trend in this modern living.

Please be a listener... and help people out instead of judging them or spreading rumors about them which may hurt their feelings. Take out time and ask them how they are doing? Make them feel loved. Please feel free to share this because everyone must read this and not only read but understand it and to know the importance of each person in their lives.

--Balnish Kaur

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Balnish Kaur

I'm 19 years old. Follow/Contact me on Instagram: @ibalnishkaur

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