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Boy Friends Are Not Boyfriends

They are brothers.

By Lezfaith SPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Most people misunderstand the friendship between girls and boys. When they see girls having a close Friendships with boys, they judge and call the girl names like slut or bitch without knowing the stories of the friendships that the girls have and without understanding the benefits of boy-girl friendships. I am a girl and most of my friends are boys. They are all different, whether married, single, straight or gay. When we hang out together we shop, sing karaoke, watch movie marathons, drink liquor and swim. I have no romantic interest in them and they have communicated no romantic interest in me.

The reasons why girls should be friends with boys:

1. Less Drama

They just want to be happy, enjoy life and stay away from the bad vibes.

2. They are good listeners.

If you have a problem or something that you want to share or to talk about, they always listen, and they will just give advice if you want them to or if it’s needed.

3. They are trustworthy.

I swear! Your secret is safe.

4. They will never judge you.

They know you are not perfect, and they don’t expect you to be. True friends will love and accept you for whom you are.

5. Men are protective.

When you in trouble with the naughty guy at the bar or anywhere they will always be there to fight for you. They will also guard your heart.

6. Time

No matter what time it is, they’re always ready for conversations over the phone, messenger, Viber or even in person if you asked them to come to talk. They always make time.

7. Open Minded

You can always make dirty jokes with them without feeling embarrassed.

8. They care so much about your heart.

They're concerned about your heart breaks and how you feel about your relationship

9. Your parents allow you to go out at night.

You will be able to stay out late at night because your parents will know that you are not alone and will make it home safe.

10. They will teach you not to drink alcohol like a camel.

At a party or in a bar you are always feel free to get drunk because you know they’re always someone who will take care of you and will take you home. They also teach you to know your drinking limitations if they are not around.

11. Learning and Knowledge

You will learn about how boys think in regards to dating because you will observe there attitudes from behind the scenes. They will also give you there perspective on guys your interested in dating.

12. They stay forever.

Even they get married they will never forget you and you can still count on them and you are still part of their lives. The best thing is you are always been part of their family.

13. They will never be prettier than you

Because guys just aren't prettier than you, but Sometimes gays might be.

So, if you already find real friends, keep them! Because it is not easy to find someone who will respect you and accept you for who you are and what you have. I swear! They will stay by your side in good and bad times. And yes! They are crazy, but that can make your life happier and fun. One of the best things also is every time you hang out with them you will learn something new and of course, they will always have your back! Physically, emotionally even financially.

To the person who judges girls for being friends with boys.

Stop being judgmental. You don’t know the stories behind the friendships that they have. Do not waste your time being bitter. Spread love.

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