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Cheater, Cheater, Pumpkin Eater

Throwback to When Kelso Cheated on Jackie and Then Hyde Cheated on Jackie - Tragic

By Ria BaezPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Cheaters. They are everywhere. Men, women, non-binary, everyone can be guilty of infidelity. Just to be clear, we're not talking about cheating in a game of Monopoly. I never quite understood why people cheat. Why would you go and sneak around with someone when you could just break up with your partner and then go fuck around with whomever you please? It's that simple. However, not everyone thinks this way.

In order to understand more about why people cheat, I interviewed someone very close to a case of adultery.

Why did he cheat on his girlfriend instead of breaking up with her in the first place?

He didn't want to dump his girlfriend because he was so used to being in a relationship that he didn't know how life would be without her. He also didn't want to make her feel bad by ending the relationship, he said he would rather just wait until they drifted apart instead of straight up ending the relationship himself. He knew he wasn't going to get caught so he just kept cheating until his girlfriend broke up with him. She didn't know about the cheating though, or at least she chose to ignore it.

Why do you think people commit adultery?

People who cheat look at the short term of the situation. They think they're not going to get caught but they don't see that at some point the whole situation is going to blow up on their face. It's like they don't have a plan, they don't think about what would happen if people find out, my partner finds out, and everything becomes much more of a mess than it already was. Maybe if they saw that it would be easier to just break up with their girlfriend or boyfriend since the beginning, they wouldn't cheat.

Through the years we've seen many cases of infidelity amongst celebrities. Kirsten Stewart cheated on Robert Pattinson, Tristan Thompson cheated on Khloe Kardashian, Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce (what a fool), Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston with Angelina Jolie and then cheated on Angelina Jolie (talk about karma), Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock, Jake cheated on Miley, and many, many, many, many more celebrities have cheated.

How does it feel to get cheated on?

I wouldn't know but I bet it sucks. Imagine you are in a relation ship with this person you trust and everything is amazing, love is in the air and you are breathing in deep. Sometimes your partner acts a little weird but you brush it off and think nothing of it since of course, your partner loves you so everything is ok. One day you somehow find out that your lover was unfaithful to you. You can't believe it. Flabbergasted is an understatement of how you feel. All the memories that you have of this person are now tainted with the dark auburn color of betrayal. Even though this person made you hurt and cry like never before, they also made you laugh and smile like never before. The worst part about this is that when someone gets cheated on they break up with the adulterer and move on to better things, but some people would rather stay in a toxic relationship with this person who causes them unimaginable amounts of pain. Why? I don't know either but I bet it has something to do with some unresolved self-love issues.

Dear cheaters: Just break up with your partner if you're going to be a dirty little whore sneaking around with other people, stop being so stupid.

Dear people who got cheated on: Yes, it hurts. Cry and let it out. Let yourself feel the pain so you can move on and let it go. It happened because it was meant to happen, now it's your turn to keep moving forward onto better things. Don't worry, you'll find someone better who loves you and won't be a piece of shit.

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Ria Baez

a 16yo girl who knows nothing

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