Crappy Relationship

Has anyone ever been in a relationship where the other person didn't appreciate you...? Well I have and I'm going to tell you about it but I'm not gonna bore you with the details in between. It started when a girl told me that she liked me but at this point I didn't feel the same until a couple weeks before school. A couple days into school we started dating and this was a mistake because I rushed into the relationship and there was still a lot to learn about her, and for me to see if I could see myself having a long-term relationship with this girl. The worst part about this relationship was that we hung out twice from when we started dating in September till we broke up in January. After two weeks everyone was telling me that I should dump her but I didn’t want to because I still had hope. We argued a bit usually after I would talk to her and try and reassure her that I still want to be in the relationship. One problem was that whenever I had a problem with her instead of talking to her I usually consulted my friends, and even though it was wrong they gave me very helpful advice. When my boy Ziggy found out we were together he was kinda mad because he knew I could do better and my friends at school said the same thing but I didn't listen because I really liked her. But the feelings would slowly diminish whenever I asked her to come to the crib and she said no. She was somehow always busy on weekends and PD days😩. The first time we hung out was amazing but the second time was so bad. Around Christmas time I got her two of her favorite things (fuzzy socks and a flannel) and my friends were saying that I’m too good for her because she’s probably not going to buy me anything.

It was around Christmas and I went to her friend's party and what made it a horrible night was that she was with me for 30-minutes and all she did was take videos of me for Snapchat. At this point I wasn't having fun and I took an Uber home and when I told the driver about my night he said " I think it's time for a new girl". When I got home I was so pissed that I went to the party because it was the opposite of what I thought was gonna happen. The next day I was talking to her friend and she was telling me that she started crying because I left and because I was on Snapchat chatting a girl and I didn’t let her be in the picture. I found that to be very stupid because I was talking to a close friend and I was asking them to come pick me up but they were busy. Her friend also told me that she was about to kiss another guy at the party and when she yelled her name “my girl” got mad. So it’s New Year’s Eve and I didn’t want to go out because I wanted to hangout with her but knowing her she was probably busy so I went out with my friends. At the parties, the girl was not sober so I made sure to keep my distance and my boys also made sure. When it was midnight I sent a special snap and she replied with a generic one which she sent to all of her other friends and at this point in my head I was like what’s the point of this relationship. So it's the new year and she called me telling me that it's not working and that we were together because we cared about each other not because we liked each other and that pissed me off because we hung out twice and how is that supposed to make a relationship stronger? When it ended I was sad at first but then I realized that I’m a real one and I’m not gonna be sad over a girl. The next day I was so happy and when I told my boy Ziggy he was happier than I was! And I've been happy ever since.😁 I’ve been making YouTube videos and if/when I blow up on YouTube she’s gonna regret leaving me.