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Dating Advice: Ladies it's Time to Ask the Men Out!

If your dating life sucks, you need to take things into your own hands.

In the video above Dear Sybersue talks about women needing to change things up with dating in the millennium. If it's not working well then maybe it's time for the ladies to ask the men out! 

Guys have always had the pressure of being the pursuer and are tired of the rejection. Dating has become a big problem because of this. So many men and women are upset with how lonely they feel due to the problems they are having with meeting a potential partner.

People are giving up on having a relationship because they have stopped believing that unconditional love exists.

Unrealistic checklists have replaced courtship because if you don't fit everything on someones high maintenance list, you're out of the running when it comes to online dating!

Things need to change in a big way with the dating drought in the millennium and maybe we need to go back to doing things the old fashioned way by meeting and talking to each other in person.

Unfortunately one of the biggest problems is men are fed up being rejected when they do ask a woman out in a social setting. So...maybe if things aren't working, it’s time for the ladies to ask the men out!

Guys have always had the pressure of being the pursuer and are tired of having to be the one who is always expected to make the first move. Men are confused on what to do and women are frustrated that their dating life is becoming non-existent.

When a woman gives a man a little encouragement it goes a long way.

When she smiles or says “hi” first, it gives him the OK that she is interested. Many guys aren’t sure if they are put in a “friend zone” or if there is potential for a romantic relationship.

Ladies: times have changed and if you want to meet someone to have a partnership with you need to make an effort.

We can’t demand equal rights and then contradict ourselves by not partaking in being more assertive when it comes to asking out someone on a date.

Waiting for someone to contact you and trying to meet that perfect man online or on a dating app is probably not going to get you the love you desire in your life. How is is working so far?

If you want something bad enough why sit back and wait?

Doesn’t it make more sense to take a chance and make a move to get his attention? You know what you like so don’t let a great chance pass you by when there is an attraction to someone. You may never see them again and regret not saying something.

Don’t make your life full of “what ifs!”

I can promise you men will be flattered you took a chance on them. So what if you find out they are in a relationship or not available for another reason. Try again with someone else!

Men have had to deal with this for hundreds of years and maybe it is time we make it a little easier on them and ourselves.

If you are sitting home night after night and feeling more alone than ever, it’s time to make a change. Go out and get what you want ladies because you are in charge of who you attract into your life.

Don’t wait for a guy to come and knock on your door…go knock on his door! ❤

Susan McCord @ The Dear Sybersue Talk Show

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Susan McCord
Susan McCord

Susan McCord (Dear Sybersue) is a Dating/Relationship Talk Show Host, Author, Certified Coach & Advice Columnist. She is a mature woman with young sassy attitude! She’s been there done that and has so many T-shirts she can open a store! 

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