Five Ways to Apply the Law of Attraction to Your Love Life

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Now, first things first, if you're not familiar with the Law of Attraction, it's the belief that positive thoughts are magnets for positive life experiences. This is a concept that states: "Like attracts like," thoughts become things, and whatever it is you focus on—that's what you'll manifest in your life.

I read my first book about the Law of Attraction and the tremendous power of your mind back in 1995, and I've been hooked ever since! I've been an avid student of the Law of Attraction and in the video following this article, I want to give you five ways that YOU can apply the Law of Attraction to your LOVE LIFE!

1. Be grateful.

One of the foundation principles of the Law of Attraction is GRATITUDE.

If you're grateful for the things that you already have in your life, then you will attract more things like that into your life. Even if you are single right now, and you feel lonely, focus on the love that you DO have in your life right now. Your friends love you, your family loves you, heck, even your pets love you! Be grateful that you DO have love in your life.

2. Be happy for others.

You know when you see one of those couples that are super in love and very happy. Well, when you see that you need to be HAPPY FOR THEM, and feel JOY. If you feel even the slightest bit jealous, you are actually pushing away having that experience from your own life.

Yesterday, I received an invitation to one of my best friend's wedding in January. I was so overcome with happiness that I actually got goosebumps. She's one of the first people I met when I got divorced and we've helped each other so much in different areas of our lives.

3. Focus on what you want.

Focus on what you WANT, NOT on what you DON'T WANT. When it comes to your love life, you're going to want to focus on the love, NOT on wanting love, or that's what you'll get—MORE wanting of love. Instead, focus on what your ideal relationship would look like and keep that in mind. Act as if it has already happened.

What you don't want to do is focus on how terrible that one guy was or how horrible your last date went. It's so easy to get mired down in negativity, but you will want to focus on the positive! Those things that you want to come into your life.

4. Send out love!

Love is the most powerful force in the Universe. It's true what they say, whatever you put out to the Universe is what you get back. If you can't think of one specific person to send love to, just sending out love to the entire Universe will do the trick.

This one may be very difficult to do. Great in theory, but how do we love everyone? I've found that when you truly forgive someone, they are easier to love. And you'll have more peace in your heart, too.

5. Stay in the present moment.

So many of our problems are caused by us just not being present. Depression is caused by guilt from something that has happened in the past, which you can't change. Anxiety is worry of fear for the future, something that hasn't happened yet. Do your best to stay present, it's actually the only thing that you have control over.

Remember, no matter who you are, YOU deserve to have LOVE in your life!