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How to Find Love

A Method of Madness to Help Find Love in Another's Soul

By Cynthia LomaxPublished 6 years ago 2 min read
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Love is usually perceived as a myth to those who attempt to consume it. Comprehending the reality of the myth is a difficult aspect to intake when the past has shown shreds of what was thought to be love. The reality of love is chaos and passion creating a world that holds shots of pain and pleasure; heaven. However, those who desperately perceive love as a figment of imagination created from a mind of loneliness seem the most determined to obtain it. When that person is alone and vulnerable, their mind begs the question that has run through all of our minds.

How do you find love?

In a fair disclaimer, I am not Cupid and I cannot magically aim my arrow and fix your love life. However, from past experience I can share the secret tips I have discovered that can open a opportunity to let love and you collide.

1. Self-Love

Yes, I know you’re looking at this tip as though it’s one of the most naive things on this website. Though it sounds naive, I promise with the more self-love one holds, the bigger opportunity one has when love comes around. I accomplished this step by going to the gym, working on my personal fashion sense, and my personal appearance in a way that I was happy with it and not society. As I was working on myself and making myself work to my own expectations, I stopped being involved in trends that I thought I had to rock because everyone else was. I was not consumed with the worry of everyone else’s opinions, only my own. I learned my self-worth.

2. Socialize with the people who matter.

This is one of my favorite tips that I learned in my venture of finding my love. Those who socialize with others who look at the world negatively will attract a negative demeanor in their personal aura. Be sure to be around people who spread positive thoughts and hype one another up instead of creating a moment of competition. I did this step by taking a look at my bigger picture and deciding that there were certain people who didn’t provide a sense of emotional support but rather emotional downfall. As hard as it was, I managed to push them out of my life, only creating a positive aura for myself.

3. Do not look for love.

I have never once met a person who found love that ended up being a permanent factor in their life. Love is not something to treat like the chest at the end of a treasure hunt but rather a lighting strike in the middle of a storm. Within the millions and billions of people who walk around our world, one day, a lighting strike will hit two people and those people will meet in the middle. Love is a chance that fate is giving to everyone on a day where it is believed the person is strong enough to take on the battles they will face while on the path of love. Let love come to you.

All it needs is three easy steps to understand that love is obtainable no matter what gender and level of confidence is present. Love is a beautiful conception that should not be limited. With time and consideration, love will come to you.

Just have faith.

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Cynthia Lomax

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