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Wouldn’t life be so much simpler if you could read minds like Professor X from the X-Men? Especially if the mind you could read was your man’s mind? With that superpower, you could see for sure how he feels about you. But unfortunately, you weren’t born a mutant or with ESP so reading his mind is not a realistic option. It would be helpful if dates came with a crystal ball or a Magic 8 Ball so you could get a little help to see what they’re thinking.
Sometimes, we can assume what our man is thinking but this can be a real problem, especially at the very beginning of the relationship. A wise person once told me to assume means “to make an ass out of you before me.” So, it’s never good to make assumptions, especially if you have nothing to back it up. The beginning of a relationship is the time when you’re starting to get to know each other. There are many questions during this stage of a relationship. There are some ways you can tell how he’s feeling about you without the use of the supernatural. Men are complex beings so it’s just a matter of decoding what he says and does. They are:
1. He smiles at you, a lot.
And not only when he’s trying to get you into bed. This is a smile full of genuine care, attraction, and compassion.
2. He likes talking to you on the phone for a very long time.
Men don’t typically like to talk on the phone unless it’s with someone they care about.
3. He likes cuddling with you.
Usually, if a guy doesn’t like a girl, he won’t cuddle with her. But when he likes cuddling with you, it definitely has meaning behind it.
4. He’s interested in knowing everything about you.
He wants to know about your likes and dislikes, your favorite movies, favorite music, and favorite food. He wants to know about the things that make you happy, sad, and mad. He wants to know about your dreams, goals, and aspirations. And so much more.
5. He’s always going that extra mile to make you happy.
He gets you that thing you’ve been talking about getting but you never have time to get it. Or he surprises you with that favorite dessert at your favorite restaurant.
6. The quirks you have that you think are irritating, he thinks they’re adorable.
So, he knows that sometimes you can be a bit of a weirdo, but he's not bothered by it. In fact, he thinks your weirdness makes you unique.
7. The chemistry between you is on another level.
You think alike, your energy could bend steel, your heart beats the same rhythm, and when you’re with each other it can get pretty hot.
8. He loves the time you two spend together.
He doesn’t care what you’re doing, you both could be laying in complete silence in the dark. As long as you’re doing it together he will be satisfied.
9. He compromises with you.
Even though he doesn’t want to do that thing you want to do, he does it to make you happy. Plus, he knows that next time you’ll be the one to compromise.
10. He starts talking to you about plans, for the future, he wants to have with you.
He talks about weddings, your future children, and building a legacy with you. You just might be the one. Hold on to him tight, never let him go.
These are all pretty clear and great indications that you’ve landed a keeper and that he feels the same way about you. He understands what he’s got with you and he wants to make sure that he does not blow it. Pay close attention to these signs and you’ll know just how he feels about you. These signs don’t lie and you can depend on them to accurately measure what your guy thinks of you.