Is He About to Say Those 3 Words?

Those three words can make or break any relationship. And when a man is in love, he may or may not say it. So maybe you are here to determine whether or not you should be the one to say it first, or if in fact, he already has said he loves you, except without actually saying those three little words. There are many reasons a man may not just flat out tell you that, from being hurt or just scared of being rejected. Signs he does, in fact, love you are very similar to that of he is about to say those words, but maybe he is just scared.

1) He wants you to meet his friends and his family or vice versa. This is a clear indication things are heating up and if things go well, you can be sure he is probably in love with you so you should just say it first.

2) Uses the words "love" or "we" without actually using the terms in plain sight. He says "we" because he subconsciously hopes you are around in the future. And he will say "love" like he loves dogs or something, either way, men don't usually say the love word because it is not a "manly" thing to say. You may find he tenses up or gets nervous when he lets the word slip out. And men think women are complicated!

3) He is practicing getting ready to say it. Have you noticed that he will start a sentence with "I" and then trail off into something else like, "I..I have to go to the other room" yet comes back with nothing? HAHAHA, oh boy. Do they think we actually believe that? Or have you noticed that he is lingering around longer at the end of your goodbyes for the night? You just gave him a hug for a good 45 seconds and he lets you go, but you both kind of look around for awhile and you feel the sense that something is being left unfinished, and what could be left? I love you.

4) Hesitation at random times, like number 3, you will find him staring at you like he wants to say something, but doesn't. Or have you ever caught him giving you the look? Ladies, you know the look, it's the look he gives you when you are standing there in the sunlight and for a moment you sense a shift in his eyes, after all, the eyes don't lie.

5) Has he said things like, "I am so happy you are in my life?" "I never want to lose you" "You are all I have eyes for" Things like this make you feel good and lets him have a breather from the pressure of those actual "I love you" words.

You might be thinking how someone could say they love you without saying it, well actions speak louder than words sometimes, especially men. Men are so great at hiding their feelings, it makes the ladies go crazy, as if they are not crazy already ;) Just kidding!

1) He prioritizing you into his life. If he is a busy person, he will make time for you. Scheduling out a time just for you and him time. If you are sick, he comes right over to bring you meds and food.

2) He asks about you and your day. How you are feeling and if there is something wrong he genuinely cares to know what is going on so he can have some input. FYI, men like to be needed once in awhile. It makes them feel like someone actually needs them.

3) He always stays close. When you two are together the furthest apart you two go is sitting across the table from one another. Let's face it, when you love someone you want to be next to that person. That person is your comfort, your safe zone. He will not let you out of his eye sight.

4) Isopraxism- Mirror the actions of others. This is totally subconscious, Couples tend to do this unconsciously as they fall in love; their bodies can't help themselves. For example, this guy I am talking to, we went on a walk, we walked with the same foot at the same time even though their is a significant height difference. Or when I lay my head on our chest our heartbeats and breathing sync. It is a very cool thing to experience.