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Love vs True Worth

Who to Listen To

By Tanii BurgosPublished 5 years ago โ€ข 3 min read
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Love could either be an amazing feeling or a hurtful one.

Your heart blinds you from your value while your mind fights for your worth.

Enough Is Enough!

Mad Love

Being too understanding...

When you're a person who becomes very understanding and trying to fill in the gap of the why in a problem of your relationship it can lead to understanding why a person is the way they are. So looking into someone's past can help you understand why they either don't trust, don't know how to give as much love and affection or are overly controlling. You may even discover why they were actually single to begin with and if that's the case it's time to abandon that ship.

How many excuses will you continue to make for him or convince yourself?

When your hesitant of your spouse because your afraid of them it's time to let go. If your a happy person and their miserable all the time and you try to lift their spirit and it just never works...it's time to let go. Does he scream and be little you in public or behind closed doors...Let go. You should never feel fear towards your significant other. Always know your worth and stand your ground when this occurs. Perhaps you feel so much for this person because you think you understand who they are and hope for change but is that the way of truly being your happiest self? Have you been together for years and still haven't seen the change you hope for? Let go. Truthfully said sometimes you can't just picture your life without this person but being afraid is not the way of being at peace and in harmony with the beautiful soul you have. Once you find your true worth and become at peace with yourself, watch how your life flips around and the guy you dream about comes into your life.

So like how can I flip this from Ughh to Yass!! Well the answer starts in you.

You have to be very comfortable with yourself first. Know who you really are. Learn how to be content with your own company and life before you jump into being with someone. You need a life of your own, even if that means spending time alone. Do all the things you like to do, read a book, write in a journal, bake a cake, decorate your house, hang out with positive like minded people, find whatever passion you have and work on it. Align your body, mind, and soul to your harmony. When you do this you discover more love and appreciate who you are more than you thought. It is then when you can truly appreciate who your partner is. And they can appreciate and love you more than you ever imagined. Because if your not aligned with your own happiness or worth how is anyone supposed to respect or love you. So everything starts from within yourself. After you learn to appreciate and love yourself ask yourself the million dollar question does my partner deserve to have me. Here's a trick to try out. What are the things you love and like about your partner (Pros/Cons)? Write a list of the love you have for them and why. If pros are long focus on just that and watch how much more of the stuff you love shows more in them. If the list is short and full of cons and you're afraid, girl just like the rapper O.T says, "You need to cut it!!!"

Tanii ๐Ÿ’‹

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About the Creator

Tanii Burgos

A creative writer, exploring & capturing the beauty in every moment while putting it into writting and revisualizing it into art. Happy Readings ๐ŸŒ—โœ๏ธ

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