#MyWorstDateStory

I accepted a request from a guy online and agreed to meet him at our local food shop. I brought my sister with me to be on the safe side. At first meeting, he wasn't a bad guy, but as time passed we continued to see each other. He would meet me at my sister's and we would either go out to do something or just simply stay in at my house or his.

One time, out of the blue, we decided to go to the cinemas in Manchester city centre to see what movie we could catch. Now, I can't remember the movie we watched, probably because the whole time I was in there I wanted to get out. We were just sitting and watching the screen, as you do, when he suddenly slid his hand to my leg and then I between them; I froze as I did not expect him to do this and I felt very uncomfortable, therefore I shifted away as much as I could and looked to him as if to say "what the ****!!!"

No matter what I tried he kept pushing to go under my underwear, so I did anything and everything to stop him from behaving so inappropriately. I know most people like to kiss in cinemas and sometimes go further, but I am not one of those girls! Especially as he started to try to finger me. To make things worse, there was a woman sat in the same row as us who noticed so I then felt ten times worse, shamed, useless, and just in complete WTF!! In the end, I pushed his hand away telling him to stop, although I did not want to cause a scene but at the same time, I couldn't just sit there and let him do that to me, especially so openly.

For some crazy unknown reason, that wasn't the end of our relationship. There's another two "WTF" moments that I experienced with him. The second is a family event that I went to with my parents and my boyfriend came along. I knew that he would have been too tired to stay at the family event, but he still insisted that he wanted to come and that he would be fine. We arrived at the venue and not long after, he said he had to go back to the hotel room. I was truly annoyed with him because I couldn't just let him go back alone, but thinking about it now I should have let him go back alone. I left the place and saw my cousin just as we were leaving and he was looking as if to say "where are you going?" I felt terrible. So we went back to the hotel room and just sat watching TV. If we had sex, it wasn't anything like wow, because I seriously can't remember if we did or not.

The third and final straw, this made me certain we should break up. It was his birthday and he wanted to go to Blackpool for his birthday to go to pleasure beach theme park. For a start, the weather was cold and rainy, not a day for a visit to a theme park. I tried to discourage the idea, but he was adamant that we were going. So I stupidly went with him. There were a few other people and another couple that we kept on bumping into. We went on a ride, and at this point the wind had picked up. We got off the ride and I was worried that my mascara had run due to the wind and rain. It had. As we walked into a shop, we bumped into the same couple and her eyes were the same. We were smiling to each other at the same situation we were in, then that was it. We went back to the hotel.

Later that night after a walk, we went to bed and he kept on trying to have sex with me. Firstly, I wasn't in the mood, secondly, we didn't have any protection. Still, he kept on trying his look and even through a few blackmail lines towards me using the excuse that it's his birthday so I should agree for that reason. In the end, you can guess... I STUPIDLY gave in. I shouldn't have at all. But there you go. I let him do it, even though I really didn't want to.

I had noticed on and off throughout the relationship that he was controlling or close to it and even clingy. Luckily, I didn't get caught pregnant or get any STIs. I realised that I didn't have any feelings for him and no longer wanted to be with him or even see him again. I ended the relationship with him. After a lot of texts and calls he started to get nasty. He put credit on my phone so I had no excuse not to talk to him, but I just ignored him. After a while I got a message saying my phone was locked and it was something to do with him saying I was putting his money on my phone. I told the people who I was talking to about my phone being locked that I had not long broke up with him and she just laughed and fixed my phone. Not long after I heard he quit his job and moved out of the area and I didn't hear anything else.