No One Is Perfect

So after seeing and hearing so many discriminate people both in real life and online, I felt like this is something that needs to be addressed.

First, I want to speak about appearances and personality. How tall you are, your beauty, style, looks, anything we can see, they don't matter. Appearance means nothing for everyone is equal in a way. You were born with your looks and voice, what can you do about it? No one is born the way they wish they were born to look as. And that's alright, for It's your personality that matters. Even if someone gets called "ugly," "short," etc., I still like them as a person because they have a good personality. Everyone is beautiful to me no matter what. No one deserves to be hated on because of their looks. And I believe that even those with the worst personality can change. I know I did. Sure, I can still be a bit frustrating at times, but who isn't at times? But I've changed a lot since early 2016. I realized that there's actual kind people out there who actually care, unlike my reality, where it's dark and cold. And because of all the amazing people I've met in my life, even if they're online, they have shaped me into a better person. So yes, I do believe someone with a horrible personality can change, as long as they choose that path, so give them a chance. If I was able to gain so many chances from the people I've met, don't you think others deserve those chances too?

Second, I want to speak about favoritism. As stated earlier, we're all equal. We're all human beings and deserve the same amount of respect for one another. Sometimes, people can favorite people so far that they always choose that person, and push away everyone else like an echo. No one deserves to be ignored, even the worst of people. Hear everyone out, and don't think that just because you don't favorite them or like them whatsoever, that they don't deserve some kindness. There's no reason to make enemies with someone just because they have some kind of weird personality or have "horrible" appearances. We're all unique in our own way so stop thinking everyone has to be the same and look and act perfect, because that's not how things work in reality. Not everything will go the way you want it to be, for that's how life is. But the least you can do is try. Try to be a nice person to everyone. Sometimes, I'm still mean to some of you, and I sincerely apologize for my actions and words. But give everyone a chance. Those who are homeless, alone, afraid, lost, in despair, and more, it's because they were never given chances. They don't deserve such a life. No one does. So please, be fair to everyone and stop making specific people a favorite of yours.

Third, I want to speak about skill. This may seem like a small topic, but believe me when I say I'm tired of seeing and hearing hate comments about one's skill. Stop thinking you're the best, because no one is close to best. There's no such thing as a best person. We all start somewhere, and no one is born with "perfect skills." You don't just turn five and all of a sudden, know how to play basketball like a pro, or turn three and have "perfect" shading skills when drawing. Everything takes practice and another thing that gets to me is how people complain about how long you've been working on that skill. I've been making art since December 2015, have been singing since I was 8, and making creative writing since 4th grade. But am I "perfect" at any of those skills? No. No I am not. Nor will I ever be. Skill comes from dedication, from years of practice. It doesn't come just like that. Stop acting like you've always been "perfect" at something, because years ago, you were clearly not as good as you are now at that skill. Children deserve to live from beginning to end without all this stupid unreasonable discrimination, so stop.

Fourth, I want to speak about childhood. And no, I don't mean my childhood. I mean everyone's childhood. As someone who just turned a teen a few months ago and has dealt with plenty of stupidity and battles, I know what it's like to have people start commenting things like, "That child can't do anything. They're as pathetic as the other children." Well, I'm sorry, have you always been an adult? No. You had a childhood yourself, so stop making comments about those in childhood years, because they don't deserve to hear such things. I've told myself I wanted to forget my childhood many times, but there are many things I want to remember, and I am not letting adulthood mess with my childhood, my friends, my life. Think back to your childhood. Were people so rude to you when you were a child? If no, then you have no reasons to throw other growing children under the bus like that. If yes, then I'm sorry, but you don't have to seek revenge like that. Those you target have never did anything wrong to you, so why target the innocent? Leave them alone and let them grow up. Don't push them to the point where they actually do something.

Fifth, I want to speak about mental and/or physical disorders. Stop calling people a "faggot" because they're so-called 'worse' than you, or doing anything to those who have done you nothing wrong. You can't blame them that they have mental disorders. Leave those precious and beautiful people alone. Imagine if you had a disorder and people insulted you or used your disorder as an advantage to themselves, and joked about your disorder. How would you feel? If you don't care, then you should just stop being rude because others have feelings, you know. And if you do care, then why give those painful feelings to those who never did anything to you to deserve such hate? Give everyone some love. Care for those who have to suffer such disorders. Everyone's precious and deserves to be understood and loved, so stop throwing them under the bus. I'm tired of watching people have to cry to their last breath. I'm done with it, so start giving a damn and let these people know they're loved. Let them know they're strong and brave for making it this far. Let them know they're precious to this planet.

I don't have anymore topics for this post, but please think about what I said and apply them to your life from now on. It'll make a difference. Get up and care.