Stage 5 Clinger

Women. Do you ever run away from something that could be great when the guy is showing that he is SUPER into you? Do you ever feel pressured, or scared, and instantaneously think that you're not good enough. Do you feel that your freedom is about to be whisked away from under your feet... The minute women solemnly "like" a guy, this is EXACTLY how men feel. And don't you think, if the relationship succeeds, you very quickly lose yourself after you automatically go into the "care-for-him-mode". Let me say this. He doesn't need caring. He is grown. How do you think he got to the age he is now? And paying rent and working a job? He doesn't need you coming into his life and being his mother. He already has one of those, and I can tell you now he's definitely not looking for another! Most importantly do you really want to completely loose yourself—worth and soul—only five months into this "relation-shit"?? And then spend another year after you break-up trying to find that person who you used to be—all over again?

The answer is simple, and it should be NO. Women do this without even knowing they are doing it. It's like a subconscious mechanism, as if it were a survival mode switch the minute they see a man that they have chemistry with. We all need to learn how to hold our own, let him do the chasing, talk to him, and most importantly recognize your self-worth. In doing this, he will see your true self, and not want to let this go. Live your life without thinking about what they are doing. Don't for any split second think I can't go here or there, because Danny won't want me to, or Danny won't want to come with me—well FUCK Danny. You do you, and if he's not there at the end of the day to support you, your dreams, and your life decisions, then that's his loss, and his fault for never truly trusting in you in the first place.

Most relationships are built up on trust, and unfortunately nowadays technology has given man the ever so curious touch of a button, flick of a message, or dispatch of a photo, an out of character impulse that leads them to an ever-so-stupid decision that they love to take on a whim. This whim leads them down into an untrustworthy tunnel of doom. In which most relationships they have in the future will crumble due to their bad habits and impulses. Truth is, we weren't put on this earth to be with the same person for all eternity. It's not the way science constructed us. We are suppose to meet, breed, and continue breeding, whether it be with that person or five more—just as all animals would in the wild! Unfortunately our race has evolved immensely, and there's a little more to it nowadays!

It seems as though men need to be head over heels in-love with you in order to prove themselves or to simply 'like' you. I'm not having a dig on men, it's only in their species to seed and breed! But perhaps they need to feel SO afraid of losing you for greatness to happen. That said, they should spend the end of their days with you on their mind, wondering what they can do next to make you happy. If this is not your man, then women—don't bother. They need to be supportive and loving. So, needless to say, women, we must put ourselves first, don't let your dreams down, and most importantly don't let yourself down. Men most of the time can be HUGE time wasters, and you don't have time to waste, time is precious, always, always remember this. Especially as we get older, our lives are only getting busier, and time likes to fly. Don't ever for a minute think that you are not worthy, and especially do not let a man make you think you are not worthy. You are worth more than you know.Bye bye for now girls, love Mimi x