Sugar Babies/ Daddies/ Mommies

So for those who do not know what a sugar daddy, mama, or baby is, it's very simple. A sugar daddy or mama gives gifts and money to their sugar baby. A sugar baby is someone who spends time with an older person for companionship, money, and gifts. A sugar baby can do anything with their sugar daddy or mama during their time together. It doesn't always have to involve sex, but a lot of arrangements do. If all the arrangement involves is just sex, that's where the line gets blurred or crossed for most people when it comes to sugar baby and prostitute. The difference between prostitute and sugar baby is prostitutes only offer sex and the baby can offer a lot more than that. Any daddy who came my way only wanting sex was told to get a prostitute.

The reason this lifestyle is so controversial and not talked about is because people will assume that the sugar baby is just offering sex to one guy for money. When I was talking to a daddy, I would tell anyone who asked it was a guy who may want to date me. It wasn't that I was ashamed of who I was and what I was doing, it was that I didn't want people to assume the worst or the wrong thing. It was just best if I put my own spin on the truth. That's what a lot of sugar babies do, or they say they are a companion to an old person to get money. Some people do know the truth about sugar babies, or their version of the truth. The problem is you don't know who knows the truth, who you can trust.

I usually have questions I ask sugar daddies to keep from getting scammed. The main question is: what are you expecting from a sugar relationship? This can also be asked by a sugar daddy/mama to a sugar baby. All sugar daddies, mommies, and babies want and expect something from this lifestyle. So if you get the answer "I don't know," they may be new or they may not want to tell you. They may also be unsure of what they want.

Babies, daddies, and mamas also have to ask and talk about money. There are questions you need to ask. Everyone needs to have a number in mind when it comes to money. They also need to know whether they would be ok with allowance or if they want another payment arrangement in the arrangement. So you need to find a way to ask about allowance and how much the person usually gets or gives. I can't give you those questions but you need to ask the money questions that make sense for you. Do not ever give bank info to anyone. Paypal is safe.

Another question that babies have to ask is if their mama or daddy is married or attached. If they are married or attached, you have to make sure that their partner knows. If their partner doesn't know, they're cheating and you need to run.

Condoms and birth control are needed, even if you don't think pregnancy can happen without protection for you. Condoms also guard against STDs or STIs.

Also, safety is a major issue for sugar babies, daddies, and mamas. Be smart and trust your gut. Always meet in public for the first three or four times at least—no homes, hotels, or apartment. Always have a fully charged phone and an exit plan. Limit your drinks. Don't get drunk. Also watch your drink. If you have to leave your drink, make sure you say something to your waitress or bartender discreetly. Make sure you won't be followed.

Listen to people who know this lifestyle and your gut. Make sure to be safe and educated about the lifestyle.