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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Jiire Suyi2 hours ago
Dating
I cannot really recall how I met this guy, but all I know is that we were in the same Faculty at the time. He seemed like he’d never hurt a fly being that he was young and had not been in a lot of rel...
Vanessa Dias3 hours ago
Strong Women Are Not That Strong
Almost a decade ago, in my first year as a Psychology undergraduate student, a colleague of mine said to me, "You are good at picking up the big fights, but you never go for the little ones." It took ...
Be a Citizen of the Earth
This is not an article about disapproval of religion; in fact, it is the opposite. I hope that one day in a world that is torn apart by cultural and religious differences, that we can all come togethe...
Susan McCord2 days ago
My Girlfriend Just Dumped Me by Leaving a Note After 5 Years Together!
Dear Sybersue, I just came out of a five-year relationship that ended very abruptly! My girlfriend just blindsided me with a note saying she wasn’t happy, then packed her bags and left before I got ho...
J.T. Wellington2 days ago
Positive Side of Divorce
Doesn’t it make you smile when you see videos of people who go all out with elaborate marriage proposals? Nice, isn’t it? For about 30 seconds, you think about the day of your wedding and how special ...
Kelly Mackey2 days ago
Walking On Broken Glass with a Bully
This article is about adult bullying, especially towards women in relationships. They are my own views and not directed at anyone in particular. There are women out there constantly victimized by domi...
Claire Raymond2 days ago
Should I Give My Cheating Partner Another Chance?
With over 70% of people having cheated on their significant other at some point in a relationship, cheating is hardly rare. And forsome, that's it, game over, but others are willing to look past someo...
Ryan C. Hicks3 days ago
What is Love?
What is Love? Love is a Balancing Act. It is the greatest answer to life’s “What ifs.” It’s a person’s understanding or acknowledgement, of the risk of investment. Even when the return looks to be, ov...
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JAPPY .4 days ago
I Come First
When growing up, you get taught to do things for others, make others happy, and not to do this and that because of what other people might say. I mean Albert Einstein says it himself: ''Only a life li...
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Clare Scanlan4 days ago
What is Coercive Control?
Your new relationship is great! He really seems to understand you, he wants to be with you all the time, when he isn’t with you he’s always texting, he wants to know all about your life, friends, fami...
JazzyFay West5 days ago
The Truth About Couples Therapy
Having a relationship tends to be a wonderful thing to have whether it's romantic or platonic. Every type of relationship has ups and downs, little bumps in the road. Therefore, we need to face the fa...
Chris Pace6 days ago
Stopping the Self-Enabling Cycle
In today's world, people tend to look at outside influences and not ourselves as reasons for failing at something or continuing to put ourselves in the same negative situations or bad relationships. A...
Jessica Boarman8 days ago
Life's a Beach...
I love the beach. There is something so amazingly calm about the feel of the sand between your toes and the sound of the water. Calm isn't something that I have honestly had much of in my life. I keep...
Pros and Cons of the Single Life
They said being single is like the end of the world. You are alone as you watch couples going down the street hand-in-hand, giggling, cuddling and even showing public displays of affection. It's such ...
11 Signs You're Being Strung Along
There was one guy I knew who just loved the idea of stringing girls along. He didn't only love it; he relished in it. He was one of those people who was unattractive in community college but then turn...
Fannie LeFlore11 days ago
When Stuck on Stupid Becomes a Choice
Many of us place emphasis on not shaming or unnecessarily hurting other people's feelings. While this is a generally good approach for everyday life situations, there are some instances where ignoranc...
Maurice Bernier12 days ago
Success Is the Very Best Weapon!
If you were to ask somebody for the meaning of success, they would probably define it in terms of money, status, or anything else. According to Wikipedia, it may refer to "attainment of higher social ...
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Hannah Sowery14 days ago
Dear 35-Year-Old Me
I hope you’re happy. Finally, after years and years of talking down to yourself, not thinking you’re deserving of love, or interaction or even a kind word from others—to think you’re not worth the att...