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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Susan McCord2 years ago
Don't Ignore the "Red Flags" on the First Few Dates!
“Be aware of the big red flags & maintain some boundaries when you are dating!” Famous last words right?? It is not easy today in the world of relationships, dating and rarely meeting someone in a face to face scenario. Everyone is behind their technology screens and hoping & praying that they find someone they can eventually fall in love with. Unfortunately men & women are frustrated and some people are becoming desperate enough to let some of their core values fall to the basement of their pri...
Can You Trust A Guy Who Ghosted Someone Else?
Ghosting is a sad reality in today's modern dating scene. It's the act of disappearing without a warning or a trace as a way to break up with someone. Most people agree it's an act of cowardice that s...
You Want to Get Married, But Your Partner Doesn't
I remember my last serious relationship. It was with a guy who had been dating me for years, and it was one of those relationships that everyone felt was going to go the distance. Like many people, I ...
Tracy Limon2 years ago
Find Another Pond
Dating is supposed to be fun but somehow we’ve turned it into a stressful and frustrating event. Have you noticed a pattern? Are you stuck with the same type of person over and over again expecting so...
Alicia Springer2 years ago
How To Not Hate Your Husband After Kids
According to multiple studies, having a child is the third most traumatic and life-changing event that a young person can experience. It's filled with more chaos and turmoil than being locked up, gett...
Kristine Brown2 years ago
Asking and Explaining
We know that infidelity often results in breakups, divorces and social stigmatization. Western society has frowned upon straying from one’s intimate partner, from the widespread reproach of public fig...
Deepa S2 years ago
5 Ways To Deal With An Irritating In-Law
5 Ways to Deal With an Irritating in Law The relationship between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a subject of discussion. Before discussing how to resolve the problems, it is bett...
Signs a Man Is Emotionally Attached to You
It's very easy to figure out whether a girl has gotten emotionally attached to a guy. As women, we tend to wear our hearts on our sleeves and pride ourselves on being open books. Men, on the other han...
Common Mistakes We Make In New Relationships
When starting a new relationship, many individuals can be a little overwhelmed at first, and, upon being overwhelmed, make a dumb error. We are all prone to silly mistakes, but sometimes these silly m...
Katya Krakowska2 years ago
An Open Letter to the Woman Who Sent Those Pictures to My Husband
Dear O, I honestly didn't know how I was going to start writing this letter, I had to wait you see, as there were so many thoughts swirling around in my mind, most of which were unpleasant. I wanted t...
Ben W2 years ago
The Joy of Reunions
It is a very underrated yet a very joyous feeling to be able to meet up with friends who you have not seen in a long time. It is almost like you are meeting them again for the first time or that somet...
What to Expect When You Move In With Your Partner For the First Time
Moving in with your romantic partner is a major relationship milestone these days, and it's one that most people assume will lead to marriage. And, as most people can tell you, it's a serious test to ...
Miranda O'Conner2 years ago
Relationship Mistakes Men are Prone to Make
Relationships for whatever reason tend to be a difficult subject matter for men. Maybe it's society's stigma on men emoting and feeling out their personalities that keep an entire gender from explorin...
Excuses We Tell Ourselves When We are in Unhappy Relationships
Most of us have been in at least one relationship that wasn't healthy for us. It could have been an emotionally abusive relationship between you and a family member, a toxic boyfriend, or a relationsh...
Lindsie Polhemus2 years ago
Ways to Keep a Relationship Working
Any healthy couple will tell you that to keep their relationship working requires them to invest deeply, build realistic expectations and stay prepared to weather the storms together. Life is plenty c...
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Rebecca Prouse2 years ago
Language and Family
I've been considering what I'm an expert on. I guess I'm an expert in family, and a failure to understand them. You see, I come from a bilingual family. Well, my mum's bilingual. She's German. My fath...
Humans Staff2 years ago
Write For Humans Today
Humans has now joined the Vocal platform, allowing lovers around the globe to share relationship ideas, tips, stories, and ever-shifting tastes to a (somewhat complicated) community.
Divorced Dad2 years ago
I Love My Ex-Wife
This piece originally appeared in The Huffington Post. I love my ex-wife. Seriously. You wouldn’t think that would be such a shocking statement, or even a particularly unusual one — after all, we were...