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Teenage Love

Make it beautiful for you.

By Ms AbigabaPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Ever wondered how your life would be if you did certain things differently. A friend of mine always says that, “take that chance and do not take it for granted.” But I think for most of us it is the fear. The fear of; commitment, losing them at some point in life, fulfilling our duties, making the wrong choices, making them happy or even settling for what we least expected.

Love isn’t something that should bring you all the worry and fear but instead the best things in life. It is pure, effortless and kind. It is a feeling that gets you going an extra mile, protecting, trusting, it has no room for envy, it is respectful and most importantly it loves true actions. If you love someone, go to greater lengths of telling and showing how you feel about them.

Do not wait around for someone to figure out what they mean to you on their own. When you choose to be with someone, you do not treat them like an option or a starter. You give them your all like you are meant to be together forever. You people always get in relationship for the title and fun. One thing they forget is the damage they make in the process.

Some think they cannot be loved (insecurity) and in so doing they take it for granted and some it is mostly the pressure behind them. Maybe their mates are in relationships or pushing them so as to fit in. But let the fun and games get too far to the point where you get hurt. You are young and still growing. You have all the time in the world to explore the best things in the world. So do not go in for something you cannot handle. Take your time and be smart about the kind of choices you make. Do not go around breaking someone’s heart because you are careless. Look at your partner like you to. Give them the kind of love you would want to admire. The kind of love you would want to see to your children share with their partners in future. Focus on your now and tomorrow, look at things in the long run process. Do not give it all away to a flash of good things.

Ladies; love your man, have eyes for only him, support him, correct him when he is wrong, and when things go south confine in him before you complain to your girls about him , be there for him always, better your man.

Gentlemen; you chose among many and you must keep that right because she is special to you, treat her right, let her know that your shoulder is where she can find the perfect solace, be the man she saw the first time she agreed to be with you. Help each other accomplish your goals. You are young and therefore you cannot figure life out in a blink of an eye. But being a team is the one thing that is going to help you bloom each day that passes by. You are in this thing alone, just the two of you.

What the world has to say about you should not phase you or any decisions you might want to take in future. Side by side make your relationship keep your relationship stronger and forward. The ups and downs will come but you must fight and get through them. That’s life and you cannot fight that. But every time you fall, get up stronger and faster and together you can make have your little perfect world.

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Ms Abigaba

A brown skin girl with faith, hope and love

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