The Hot Guy Syndrome

Anyone who is interested in men wishes that they would have the chance to date the hot guy. And most of them will get that chance if they really want to until they find out that a terrible beast is hiding inside. Make sure you read this article until the end if you want to know how to turn him into Prince Charming because today, we are talking about the Hot Guy Syndrome or seven reasons why you don't want to date him.

And yes, "not all guys are the same." But here, we are talking about someone who suffers from (or enjoys) the Hot Guy Syndrome.

Hot Guy Syndrome, noun

"A typical male 'illness' in which the cute male is very sweet and caring at first but then turns into a complete asshole." -Urban Dictionary

He Can Easily Get Anyone He Wants

Don't ever think that you are special; this is probably one of the worst mistakes that you can make. If he's hot and he knows it, chances are he'll take advantage of the situation. You're just another prey on his list, and once he gets what he wants, he'll check your name and call next. If he is not satisfied with you, he won't even care about losing you, and he will move on to someone else. Why would he get one girl when he can get a hundred? You are not worth anything to him.

He Can Have You No Matter What He Does

He doesn't need you, but you feel like you need him. After all, you haven't seen a hot guy like him in a while, and you don't want to miss your chance. But while he knows that he can easily find another girl to replace you, he won't mind being disrespectful or manipulating you because he knows that you'll easily forgive his pretty eyes. If you leave, you lose, because you're already attached to him. If you stay, you lose, because he is hurting you. There is no way you can win this game.

He Worked on His Body but Not His Brain

This guy easily understood that he could easily get what he wants, specifically girls or guys, just because of the way he looks. Why would he invest in anything else when his beautiful smile can get him anything for free? While it's really nice to look at him when you are on a date, you might have difficulty having a nice conversation with him. All this time he spent at the gym, he should have spent it at school, at the library, or with friends who really do like him. And then, he could have found his personality somewhere. Ain't nobody got time for that.

He Ain't Got Time for You

Here's how it goes when you date a hot guy: you are all excited, you make yourself more beautiful than ever, and then he calls you at the last minute to tell you that he has to cancel. He has a good reason, and he will have another one the next time. Let's say you finally get the chance to see him. He will ask you on a date the same day and get what he wants, whenever he wants, wherever he wants. He doesn't care about you or all the time you wasted for him. You go by his random schedule.

He Takes Everything for Granted

The hot guy probably got everything he wanted in his life. Or actually, he'll tell you about the one time a girl didn't have sex with him when he paid her a drink. Tragedy. After getting things so easily, he doesn't understand how much it is worth and how hard he has to work to get it. And even if you play hard to get, for him that's a game that he's always going to win. You are not one special girl that he wants to marry, you are the hundredth who fell at his feet. For him, you're worthless.

He Will Probably Cheat on You

Do the equation: he can get anyone he wants + he doesn't care about your feelings = he will date another girl even though he is with you and he won't care at all. You can't even be proud of having this popular hot guy for yourself because he canceled your other date to be with another girl and he is already texting someone else once he will be done with you. Or actually, he is probably cheating on a more important girl with you. Don't take it personally. People cheat because they can, that's all.

He Will Always Have the Power

Don't think that you need to fall in love to lose this game. As soon as you have more feelings than he does, which is like getting a little excited about a date, you're done. The hot guy won't play if he knows that there are any chances that he will lose. And don't try to take away his power because he is probably just fooling you by making you think that you are winning. Like the wolf in the sheep suit, he knows that this is what makes him the perfect player. You'll only realize it when it's too late.

So how do you get a hot guy to fall for you? You are not the one who can change that; he will have to choose you. It's not about who wears the best makeup, who knows how to flirt, or who is better in bed. Don't be like any girl who falls in love with him, and don't even try not to be that girl. Just be happy by yourself and see how it goes. This difference is what will make you stand out from the others, and he will see that you have that little something that he can't find in any other girl. With no other need to satisfy, he won't see any reason why he would look somewhere else. Don't play his game and you both won't have anything to lose.