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What to Do When You Realize You and Your Partner Have Chemistry

Chemistry is more than an attraction—it's a necessity to any thriving relationship! So what do you do when you realize you and your new partner have chemistry?

By Heart Centered UniversePublished 6 years ago 2 min read
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Chemistry is defined as a strong attraction between two people. But when asked to explain the how and why of sexual attraction, many are left scratching their heads. One thing I know for sure is that sexual chemistry is based on more than looks alone. That’s just one tiny part of the equation. There’s also the way the other person smells. The two of you could have a spiritual connection, possibly from living past lives together. Also, attraction is very strong when two people have karmic patterns that need to be worked out (or these patterns will keep repeating). I truly believe that two people are drawn together in order to fulfill a special purpose, learn lessons about themselves or about life, or to figure out what it is they desire in a mate.

So now that we know there’s chemistry, what are we supposed to do with it?

For Women

1. You know it’s there.

Women are blessed (or cursed?) with strong intuition. We can feel a connection to a man that completely transcends all logic. There’s a “knowing” that can’t be explained, and it’s possible you’ve had dreams about him. Trust me, you’re not crazy.

2. Keep it to yourself.

You can seriously scare any good man away by professing to him that you feel a strong connection. He has to feel it too, and men work on a different timeline then women do. Give the poor chap some time to catch up. Let him feel the connection and be the first to express it to you.

3. Realize it may not be forever.

A man that you feel a very strong connection to may not be your life partner. Soulmates come into our lives for us to learn something about ourselves or as a catalyst for change. The sex is amazing for a reason—you two are drawn together for a purpose! But he may not be your life partner. Get over it.

For Men

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1. It’s not about looks.

While I realize that men are very visual creatures, sexual chemistry is not just about looks. Try and look deeper into her soul. Or don’t. There are plenty of shallow women out there and I’m sure you can find one for the night.

2. When you feel it.

If you happen to meet an amazing woman that you have chemistry with, don’t let her be the one that got away. It’s worth pursuing to find out why you feel such a strong attraction. Maybe you’ve shared many past lives together. It’s possible she’s your future wife! You never know…

3. Learn from it.

Maybe the woman that you had amazing chemistry with didn’t work out and never became a relationship. Take what you learned and move on! The most mature way to date (when you’re really looking for something serious) is to end it the moment you don’t see a future with her. The longer it goes on with the wrong person, the more painful it will be to walk away!

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Heart Centered Universe

Author of Transcendence A Memoir, SAG Actress, and Real Estate Agent based in Miami Beach, FL. My blog is about what I feel called to share with the world🌍 Be Happy and VIBE HIGH! ⭐️❤️ www.authorrebeccajbrock.com.

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