Women

It really is simple!

Ever sit there and think to yourself, what’s really the best way to get a women’s attention? The secret is women really are simpler than they make it. You may think you’re not attractive enough, or confident enough to even get a text back, but the truth is anyone can get a lady in bed. Now I’m not saying the goal is to get a woman in bed, no but even to know you have got a chance is already a step forward. I am confident that this can apply to every man... or women who have known the struggle of even holding up a conversation or even tried to get attention from a lady. When we think about it, countless opportunities have passed us where that person could have been our soulmate or even a life lesson. I got to the point where I was tired of having to wait for that “one person” to come into my life when I can bring myself into their lives and decide for myself who really is the one for me and until this day I have more options to choose from than I could imagine. By following these clear steps and using them, I grantee you will get that text back and get to where you want by being in control and you will be dying for more tips.

Don’t hesitate.

If there is one thing we all do when it comes to having a conversation with someone we like is that we hesitate to even say hello or even ask that question you have been dying to ask. Just sit back and think about all the times you hesitated to go speak to a girl to realise that she is friendly as hell and you probably could have had a good conversion. The first bit of advice I’m going to give you is that you should be accepting towards rejection. No one likes to get rejected, but the truth is we all learn from rejection and each time you go back, you will know what to say and what not to say. The word "NO" never killed anyone, so what’s the issue if three girls say no then that one says yes? Not thinking about rejection and going for it will mean you’re more confident, not worried about what anyone thinks, and a girl will find you more attractive just because of that.

Don’t be picky.

Like it or not, but we all have a preference: the type of girls we like, their interests and hobbies, dress sense, etc. A thing that I say to everyone who is struggling is to not be picky. I’m not saying lower your standards, but one or two times, go out of you’re comfort zone and speak to someone you wouldn’t normally and little things like this will improve your conversation skills. When you know your skills are improving, speak to different women and get to know what you really like. This can also be practiced, and the saying "practice makes perfect" is very much true in this situation.

Act confident.

Always be in control. When you decide you are not going to hesitate and go up to that beautiful girl, always act confident, like you have spoken to her before. Acting like it’s not your first time talking brings about instant confidence for you and the girl. Think about the times when you spoke to someone because you thought you spoke to them before or just recognized them. Didn’t the conversation just flow? Don’t spend time in your head thinking of what you should say, but think about what she will like to hear. Many girls love to be complimented and told things they don’t hear every day. “Not going to lie but I could talk to you all day. You’re just so nice to be around.” Just something as simple as that could make a difference to you getting that phone number. Don’t be afraid to open up a little, even if it is your first time talking, because that means she can open up to you as well, making the conversion flow in the right direction. But remember: Eye contact is key!

Get straight to the point.

We are made to believe that you should call three days later or that you should rush things. Believe it or not, but a woman likes a person that takes charge and shows to be in control and knows what they want. A tip to have in mind when you get the confidence to go to speak to a lady across the bar is not to just go for the phone number then see what happens next, but to plan everything there and then. Something I like doing is always setting in stone what I want so that I don’t go through the trouble of being "friendzoned." I always tell a woman how beautiful she is, but most importantly I always try to see where the night takes us, or even the day. If she really can’t spend more time with you then tell her that you are going to see each other the next day, even for something chill like coffee. Never delay it, thinking you don’t have a chance, because honestly once she sees how confident you are, IT IS ON!