Kamala Odom

What Is Marriage?

So much planning is spent on a wedding — but how much planning goes into having a marriage? How many people that confess their love for one another sit down with a pre-marital counselor or life coach to explore issues and goals for creating a marriage? If individuals that agreed to marry took the time to receive insight into a meaningful healthy marriage before the wedding, then maybe the divorce rate would not be so high. I do not think many times individuals have the same clear understanding of marriage which can and lead to confusion and ultimately unfortunately divorce. I do not believe that anyone get marries to only end their marriage in divorce. I do not believe that divorce is the goal when two people decide to get married. Its beneficial for any partner to explore with an effort to understand if they have found a good mate fit for marriage. The toll that divorce takes on two individuals that agreed to holy matrimony not to mention the children can be brutal. So many people put more emphasis in planning a wedding than the actual planning of the marriage. When two whole, healthy, completed individuals come together many things should be taken into consideration before actual planning the wedding: