Stage 5 Clinger
Women. Do you ever run away from something that could be great when the guy is showing that he is SUPER into you? Do you ever feel pressured, or scared, and instantaneously think that you're not good enough. Do you feel that your freedom is about to be whisked away from under your feet... The minute women solemnly "like" a guy, this is EXACTLY how men feel. And don't you think, if the relationship succeeds, you very quickly lose yourself after you automatically go into the "care-for-him-mode". Let me say this. He doesn't need caring. He is grown. How do you think he got to the age he is now? And paying rent and working a job? He doesn't need you coming into his life and being his mother. He already has one of those, and I can tell you now he's definitely not looking for another! Most importantly do you really want to completely loose yourself—worth and soul—only five months into this "relation-shit"?? And then spend another year after you break-up trying to find that person who you used to be—all over again?