Mina Valentine
Bio
I am an Author, Relationship/Dating Coach, Personal Stylist and comedian. USNavy veteran. Spoken Word Artist. Vegetarian.
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Stop... In the Name of Love!
More and more I have come to the realization that a lot of us need to seek help. And I'm in no way saying folks are just crazy and need to be admitted. A lot of us need to admit that our insecurities, past hurts, bitterness, and resentments cause unhealthy relationships going forward. Too stubborn to acknowledge why James' infidelity was due to how you treated him as a man. Too hurt over Cheryl stepping out on you. Yes, he/she was wrong for cheating on you, but you chased him/her into the arms of someone who wanted a good man/woman. Your insecurities, badgering, and nagging, endless social media posts instructing someone how you should be loved, just didn't keep him/her wanting to hurry home to you. If they've got one good friend who brags about their fantastic relationship and how things go well between them, then eventually their hearts will swell for that kind of love.
By Mina Valentine5 years ago in Humans